You Can Start Today!

When my sisters and I were in grade school, my dad had his own way of encouraging us to do well. He taught us the following exchange, which we had to say nearly every day. Every morning, he'd say to us, "Do your best!" We would always say that we would. Then he'd ask us, "Why are you going to do your best?" Our response was, "Because we're going to be somebody." Then he'd say, "Starting when?" To which we'd reply, "Today!" Today…

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You Can’t Rely on Motivation Alone

We all do it. We get inspired by a delightful story. We're moved by a picture or video that resonates in our hearts and we say to ourselves, we're going to make a change. We decide we're going to take more risks and stop letting our anxiety control us. We're motivated! Then, seconds later, we're reneging on that promise and falling right back into our normal routine. Why is motivation so hard to maintain? This is a question I often ask myself.  As…

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I Don’t Want to be Famous

While I've never been famous, it doesn't seem all it's cracked up to be. Sure, the money would be great, and the perks are likely wonderful, but fame seems to come at a much higher price tag than most people bargained for. With the internet, paparazzi, and crazy fans selling their stories to the media, it seems that celebrities spend just as much, if not more, time protecting their career from people trying to tear it down as they do building it. So…

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When Did You Stop Believing?

I am a fan of Jeff Goins.  He wrote the book, The Art of Work, which I read it as part of this 30 Day Reading Challenge. I also started following his blog where he wrote about his 3-year-old son Aiden, believing he is a superhero with super powers.  Even with Jeff and his wife Ashley explaining the differences between real life and make-believe, Aiden still totally believes he is a superhero. Jeff then goes on to ask the following question: "Do you remember…

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Welcome to Discarded Anxiety…Finally!

This blog almost never existed. I've been wanting to start a blog to help people dealing with social anxiety for a long time. Much longer than anyone knows, even those closest to me. But I always ran into two problems... What would I say, and who would want to listen to me? With those fears in the forefront of my mind, I've started and deleted 5 different blogs over the last 5 years.  I didn't think what I had to say was valuable, and I didn't think…

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